Sunday, March 27, 2011

The Sunday Salon - Family News

I'm late with my Salon post, but it's been a busy weekend and I really wanted to write about this, so I couldn't pre-write and schedule the post ahead of time. 

This is a book blog and I don't often share personal information with you, but there are times when I want you to get to know me better as a person, which I think is important in the blogging community.  So, I'm taking the opportunity to let you into my world a little bit today.

My husband and I embarked on an emotional journey yesterday.  We started the process of adoption.  Yesterday was our first training class.  We will go again next Saturday, then 2 weeknights and one more Saturday to fulfill the training requirements.  We will also be undergoing a home study along the way.  This decision has been a long time in the making.  You see, my husband has 2 children from a previous marriage and they have given us 5 beautiful grandchildren, but I've always wanted a child of my own.  Unfortunately, after many years of trying, lots of doctor visits and tears, we just aren't able to do so on our own.  Yes, we could go the in-vitro route, but it's expensive and not 100%.  We decided just to keep trying and if it happened, it happened.  Well, it hasn't, so here we are.

One of my teachers adopted a little boy last year, and she introduced me to Sans Pareil Center, who we are working with.  Sans Pareil does adoption with CPS as well as private adoptions.  Private is very costly, so we are going foster to adopt through CPS.  Our desire is to get an infant, foster until the CPS case is closed and then officially adopt him or her.  No, we don't have a gender preference.  We will be happy with whatever the Lord blesses us with.  We have been told that the process should go quickly, it will be emotional, sometimes stressful, but worth it in the end.  I will keep you posted.

One thing I do want to share with you is One Cause.  One Cause provides adoptive parents a way to raise funds for adoption related expenses in an easy way.  It allows people to earn contributions while shopping online.  Part of the money that is spent with everyday merchants is given back to the adopting family, from the National Adoption Foundation.  I'm sharing with you, the letter I sent to friends and family.

Dear Family and Friends,

We want to share our exciting news with you! We have decided to expand our family through adoption and are busily getting ready to welcome our new child!

For us, the difficult part of this process - other than the waiting - is the expense. As some of you may know, adoption expenses include agency fees, legal fees, document preparation costs, travel expenses and more. We have been saving some, but are still seeking ways to raise more funds for our wonderful venture.

We recently learned of a program through OneCause and the National Adoption Foundation that we think will help us make our adoption dream come true. OneCause is a nontraditional fundraising program that will help us earn the funds we need through everyday opportunities, such as shopping at hundreds of name-brand merchants online or in stores and catalogs, through purchasing gift certificates, by using the OneCause credit card, or through a variety of other easy programs.

We're really excited about this program and wanted to let you know that you can participate and help us build our family by becoming a member of OneCause. There's absolutely no cost or hassle to you - just do what you do every day and we will earn credit toward our adoption costs!

Here's How You Can Help

1. Become a registered member of OneCause. Simply go to and register as a OneCause member. This only takes a minute and you'll be on your way to helping us out.

2. Once you have registered, find the "Dues Crediting" field at the bottom of the online registration screen. You will see a field called "Benefiting." Enter our registered email address and your contributions will automatically begin to benefit us.

Our registered email address is:

3. Begin shopping at hundreds of OneCause merchants online, in stores, and through catalogs. You'll earn a merchant contribution on each purchase, a percentage of which will go toward our adoption credit. Remember to begin all of your online shopping at OneCause so we earn credit!

4. Consider signing up for and using the OneCause Visa card for all of your purchases. On every purchase you make with the card - no matter where you make it - the National Adoption Foundation earns a 1% contribution, part of which goes toward our adoption. To sign up, go to or call 1-800-297-1286 and use code 28B8. Once your card arrives, be sure to activate, register your card, and start shopping!

5. Ask us about other OneCause opportunities to help us earn adoption credit!

That's all there is to it!

Please call or email us with any questions you may have regarding our situation. We are always excited and happy to talk about this wonderful adventure. When our child arrives home to us, we will contact you with our happy news. Thank you so much for helping us bring our child home.

Thank you!
Willie and Shelly Burns

Register with OneCause and help us build our family!


bermudaonion said...

What a wonderful journey you're embarking on! Several of our friends have adopted babies here lately and it's such an exciting time. Keep us posted along the way.

Pam (@iwriteinbooks) said...

Oh, wow!! Congrats on the start of your journey! My little brother was a long time coming when he finally arrived but, obviously well worth it. My parents said that the process was tough (it's tougher, now, I know, than it was in the 90's) but, obiously well worth it. I can't wait to see your progress!:O)

Julia M. Reffner said...

That's exciting that you are embarking on the journey of adoption! There are so many wonderful organizations out there like the ones you've mentioned. I hope your journey goes smoothly.

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